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#LessHuman #MoreBeing

[Udeze @Acusmamejo]

@Elkrosmediahub Itiborịbọ
Itibọnkọm
Itinkpataka

[Enugu Celebrity Cake Queen @CakeMaestro042]

Tweets like this are funny🤣
A lot of pastry shops start out selling stuff like these, only to realize that most people ask for same doughnuts and meat pies instead because they are cheaper.
We are a poor country o!
Pastry shops that sell these, thrive in highbrow areas

[Obeta Ebubechukwu @Obeta_Ebube]

Nigeria in Five years 😁

[Udeze @Acusmamejo]

Not bad

[Udeze @Acusmamejo]

Twitter back in the day.

[Nickyy 😔 @Replay_remix]

ouch!

[Nickyy 😔 @Replay_remix]

ouch!

[Udeze @Acusmamejo]

@UmesikeL Preach!!

[Udeze @Acusmamejo]

@iamklausenburg I thought it was porrage 🤔

[Udeze @Acusmamejo]

"Sacrifice without communication creates invisible resentment." 🔥 🔥

[Queeneth @Queeneth01olx]

I spent 4 years paying my younger sister’s school fees. Every single kobo.

The day she graduated, she gave the acknowledgement speech and thanked everyone except me.

I sat in that hall and felt my soul leave my body 😭.

When she got admission, things were tight at home.

I had just started my first job.

I told our parents, "Don't worry. I’ll handle it." And I did.

Every semester. No breaks.

There were months I was eating 0-1-0 so her account wouldn't run dry.

I never told her. I didn't think I needed to.

Graduation day, she looked beautiful. The first graduate in our family.

I was prouder of her than I’ve ever been of myself.

Then she got the mic.

> She thanked God. (Fair).
> She thanked our parents. (Expected).
> She thanked her friends who kept her sane.
> She even thanked her HOD.

Then she sat down.

My mother looked at me. I smiled and looked away, but the clapping felt like it was happening in a different room.

I didn’t say anything that day. Or the week after.

But something in how I moved changed.

I stopped volunteering. Started waiting to be asked. Started noticing who actually noticed me.

People say, "Don’t give to be recognized." I agree to an extent.

But there is a thin line between not needing applause and being erased by the person you bled for.

That's not humility. That's invisibility.

We’re fine now. I brought it up six months later, calmly.

She cried, and said she was nervous and blanked.

Maybe. Maybe not 🤷

But I learned something either way.

Sacrifice without communication creates invisible resentment.

Tell people what you are carrying for them. Not to guilt trip them. But because silence makes martyrs, and martyrs make bitter people.

This same dynamic shows up in dating every day.

You’re playing the provider or the supporter in silence, while your partner thinks you're just an oil money that never runs dry.

Stop accepting the bare minimum of gratitude. If they don't see the sacrifice, they won't value the person making it.

Has someone ever made you feel invisible in a relationship after everything you did for them?
Let’s talk below.👇

[Queeneth @Queeneth01olx]

I spent 4 years paying my younger sister’s school fees. Every single kobo.

The day she graduated, she gave the acknowledgement speech and thanked everyone except me.

I sat in that hall and felt my soul leave my body 😭.

When she got admission, things were tight at home.

I had just started my first job.

I told our parents, "Don't worry. I’ll handle it." And I did.

Every semester. No breaks.

There were months I was eating 0-1-0 so her account wouldn't run dry.

I never told her. I didn't think I needed to.

Graduation day, she looked beautiful. The first graduate in our family.

I was prouder of her than I’ve ever been of myself.

Then she got the mic.

> She thanked God. (Fair).
> She thanked our parents. (Expected).
> She thanked her friends who kept her sane.
> She even thanked her HOD.

Then she sat down.

My mother looked at me. I smiled and looked away, but the clapping felt like it was happening in a different room.

I didn’t say anything that day. Or the week after.

But something in how I moved changed.

I stopped volunteering. Started waiting to be asked. Started noticing who actually noticed me.

People say, "Don’t give to be recognized." I agree to an extent.

But there is a thin line between not needing applause and being erased by the person you bled for.

That's not humility. That's invisibility.

We’re fine now. I brought it up six months later, calmly.

She cried, and said she was nervous and blanked.

Maybe. Maybe not 🤷

But I learned something either way.

Sacrifice without communication creates invisible resentment.

Tell people what you are carrying for them. Not to guilt trip them. But because silence makes martyrs, and martyrs make bitter people.

This same dynamic shows up in dating every day.

You’re playing the provider or the supporter in silence, while your partner thinks you're just an oil money that never runs dry.

Stop accepting the bare minimum of gratitude. If they don't see the sacrifice, they won't value the person making it.

Has someone ever made you feel invisible in a relationship after everything you did for them?
Let’s talk below.👇

[Udeze @Acusmamejo]

@ThaBoyYom Then there this SA babe that her voice is deep in the morning. She doesn't answer anybody until 12pm.

[Ancin Bruni🐉 @AncinBruni29998]

My Pastor: No reward for "Sinners"

Me:

[Udeze @Acusmamejo]

@OtitoNosike This is literally what China is doing.

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@NemeremNjoku Ị mere a

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@CakeMaestro042 The stoic

[iNDIGO HAS a PVC. @rteeret]

I wrote this.

[Udeze @Acusmamejo]

@toylan20 @oku_yungx It's giving "Come... I won't beat you" 😂

[Udeze @Acusmamejo]

@Chrisblin I saw pipe borne water and laughed 😂.

[Udeze @Acusmamejo]

Damn

[Diogo Jota @DiogoJota18]

Happy New Year 🎉🙏🏻