Something about this man telling me he anticipates my calls because my voice soothes his nervous system moved me to pull my energy back. It felt like a subtle siphoning, and the connection is strictly platonic. I am tired of being a safe space for men who do absolutely nothing for me. My energy and essence are sacred lands. No more free access to my medicine. Approach with reverence, with an offering, or do not approach at all.
Manipulating someone into sex by falsely claiming you want a serious relationship is a form of sexual deception. It violates trust and undermines meaningful consent, even if it isn't legally categorized the same way as every form of sexual predation.
Lemme burst your brain
The only reason a woman won't cheat on you is cause she has so much respect for her body
It has nothing to do with being loyal to a man
a regulated nervous system isn't quiet. it's responsive. it laughs loud in restaurants. it cries at commercials. it gets a full body chill from a song it hasn't heard in years. people mistake numbness for peace because numbness is easier to manage. but real peace has a pulse. it moves through you instead of around you.
with the right man you will have the space to be your playful fairy self, sensual siren self, graceful queen self, soft princess self and wise oracle self. all of it