If you want a homemaker wife who doesn’t care about degrees, then choose that type of woman. But don’t find a career focused woman and tell her to drop her degrees to become a homemaker wife.
Your preference is out there but your attention is somewhere else. Make it make sense.
Truth be told, some people are so irreplaceable. The things they do, the way they go extra miles to get things done for you, the way they always support, the kindness they show, the feelings they had for you; you may never experience it again for the rest of your life.
My problem is I’m so hyper aware of someone switching up on me. And my first inherent response is to go cold and withdraw. Like…oh you ain’t got to worry I was already on my way out.
Unfortunately, people are not always going to be brave enough to tell you they're no longer vibing with you. Sometimes, you just have to read the energies, and leave the table. Take some initiative. Let go of the guilt of letting go. Have the courage to walk alone.
There are ppl who didn’t realise they were experiencing emotional abuse until a friend highlighted it. Or they endured physical abuse until a loved one interfered. It’s good to safeguard your relationship, but also, pls don’t completely disregard the voices of those who love YOU.
AD doesn’t see her worth beyond her body, she leans into how men objectify her because she craves romantic love so much. At the altar Clay said ‘okay body’ and she even encouraged him 🤦🏾♀️ I said AD please don’t do this 😭 #LoveIsBlind