When a woman truly loves you, she makes it her mission to bring you peace.
She becomes your calm when your mind is racing.
If finances are tight, she steps in to share the load without hesitation.
When you face challenges, she is firmly in your corner against whatever comes your way.
Unfortunately, many men miss the mark and lose out on this kind of loyalty.
Women like this are rare, but they do exist.
When you find her, hold on tightly... and make absolutely sure you are bringing that same level of devotion, if not more.
Love Is Not Perfect❤️🩹
Love is not perfect. In fact, if you are not ready to be naked, do not near it. Not physically naked. Emotionally naked. The kind of naked that leaves you exposed, vulnerable, and completely seen. The kind that requires you to drop your armour, your pride, your need to always be right. Love will strip you bare, all your flaws, your wounds, your triggers, your fears, and ask you to stay anyway.
Relationships are not perfect. Neither are marriages. They are not fairy tales. They are two imperfect people choosing each other, day after day, even when choosing is hard.
It takes a whole lot of patience, the kind that does not explode at every frustration. It takes tolerance, the ability to accept that your partner will not always be who you want them to be in every moment. It takes kindness, even when kindness is not deserved. It takes lots of forgiveness, not just once, but again and again and again. It takes lots of perseverance, the stubborn refusal to quit when things get hard. And it takes lots of selflessness, the willingness to put your partner's needs beside your own.
I find it really weird that all my life in Church i was told that when you pray you also take actions
If you pray to pass you also have to read
If you pray to get rich you also have to work
But somehow we are told to pray for Nigeria and not hold our leaders accountable
a major dating mistake is expecting a perfect match for all needs. chemistry, intellect, stability, loyalty, humor. but that isn't how human compatibility actually works. the reality is much more restrictive. you essentially have a list of high-value traits and you get to pick...