There are things I keep trying to fix and pains I don’t even fully understand. Ya Allah, You see what I cannot see, fix what is broken in me and around me, I trust You more than I trust my own strength.
Ya Allah, bless the people reading this with peace in their hearts, barakah in their lives, halal provision, good health, and answers to the du‘ās they have been quietly making.
It is permissible in Islamic Law for a male surgeon to remove her gallbladder.
Ibn Hajr says, 'Cross gender looking and touching is permissible for blood-letting, cupping, and medical procedures due to the need. Ibn Hajar, Tuhfa
The above is on the condition that no qualified female surgeon is available to perform the procedure. Ibid
In addition, the following conditions should be kept in mind:
I. Preference should be given to a male doctor who is a mahram,
2. Females (doctor or patient) should be accompanied by a mahram or another trustworthy female, and
3. Viewing and touching should be limited to necessity. [Khatib, Mughnial-Muhtaj
Maintain modesty of your heart and mannerisms at all times. Modestyisa Muslim Woman's crown. Ibn Qayyim said, "The strength of the virtue of modesty is in proportion to the life of the heart.
A deficiency of modesty is a sign of the death of the heart and the soul. Thus, the more alive the heart is, the more complete a person's modesty becomes.
[Ibn al-Qayyim, Madarij al-Salikin|
I pray this is of benefit and that Allah guides us all.
Don���t rush back to what broke you just because it’s familiar. Let Allah write something new for you, even if the waiting feels heavy. You’re not behind, and you’re not forgotten. You’re just being guided to something that won’t leave you empty. Trust that.
May Allah open doors that bring peace to your heart. May they come sooner than you expect, more beautiful than you wish, and better than what you prayed for. May Allah bless you with more than your heart desires. 🤲🏻