Ok nvm imma say it. None of this is submissive. It’s actually quite dominant. It’s actually mothering. It’s motherhood. She’s a mother. A MUVA. This is a codependency strategy that mirrors motherhood literally quite nothing about this is submissive at all.
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Yes toxic relationships are hard but do you know what else is hard? Your first healthy relationship after a toxic one. No one talks about how hard it is to unlearn all the toxic behaviors you adapted as coping mechanisms. How hard it is to convince yourself that you’re safe now.