If we date, don’t stop being you. Keep having fun, keep seeing your friends, keep chasing your goals, and keep enjoying your life. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. Just make sure you save time for us too.
Whatever they say about time healing is true.
The first few months feel like your whole world is crashing down. Your chest hurts, your routine changes, and you keep wondering how you’re supposed to move on from someone who became part of your everyday life.
You miss them in the little things. The calls, the texts, the random moments. Some days it hurts so bad you wish you could rip your heart out just to stop feeling anything at all.
But somehow… time passes.
You start laughing again. Sleeping better. Thinking about them less. The pain slowly stops controlling your life.
And one day you realize you survived something you thought would destroy you.
So if you’re currently in that phase, hold on. I promise it feels unbearable now, but it does get better with time.
This is exactly why I tell men the truth.
A lot of women don’t love you they love what you provide. The moment a better option appears, the ‘love’ disappears. She’ll stay for the comfort, the money, the image… until she doesn’t.
Men sacrifice everything; their peace, their dignity, their mental health just to keep the family together.
She can pack up and start fresh with the new guy.
Never ignore the signs.
Never stay out of fear of breaking the family.
Never bet your entire life on a woman’s loyalty.
Your children need a strong father more than they need a fake family.
That man’s pain changed how I see marriage forever.
Protect yourself, kings.
The family you’re fighting to save might only exist in your head.