Age 33 ABDL and newly widowed. I’m genderqueer and prefer pronouns she and her. Here to make friends and try to be a positive influence for other ABDLs.
Anyway—another guy has been messaging me today and seems a lot more promising. Hopefully I’m gonna meet up with him next week. He’s hot for diapers and chastity and not a total newbie. Wish me luck!
How do I tell a horny boy with minimal experience in kink or even non-hetero sex that I just don’t want to be with a newbie? I don’t want him to be mad at me or think I’ve misled him. Dating is so hard. 😩
I have a real fear about retaliation from guys that think I’m interested and later find out that they just aren’t what I’m looking for. I’m really particular! All these guys think showing me their junk will impress me but hardly any of them actually give a damn about who I am.