Migrating abroad, having someone or family member receive you at the airport, give you shelter, feed you, educate you about the system, assist you secure a job and your own accommodation is a something you shouldn’t take for granted.
Sometimes you gotta SIT YO A s s IN THE HOUSE & disappear for a minute to get where tf you tryna go. Y’all be outside around too many weird spirits, secret haters, miserable mf’s, broken souls & people carrying sht you don’t need attached to YOU.
girl, be as picky as you want, because marrying late has never ruined a woman’s life, but marrying the wrong man has destroyed countless. Normalize choosing standards over desperation & freedom over fake fairy tales. because a ring without respect is just a handcuff in disguise.
My biggest fear for Nigeria is no longer how bad things are.
It is that the Nigerians who have never known anything better are becoming the majority.
They have no memory of what functional looks like. No reference point for what they should expect.
And you cannot demand a standard you don’t even know exists.