Eri'feoluwanimi😍

certified medical Lab tech|| carrier of God's Love ||
content writer||
Eledumare master piece

[Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo @GbengaWemimo]

There’s a strange pattern in life that most of us don’t notice until it’s too late.

We spend years trying to build something — success, stability, a better future. And in that process, we meet people. Some come and go, but some stay. They support us, believe in us, help us quietly, without asking for anything in return.

But as life gets busier, something shifts.

We start focusing more on what we’re chasing than on who stood by us while we were chasing it.

And slowly, unintentionally, we begin to overlook the very people who made our journey easier.

Not because we’re bad people.

But because we become careless.

A Small Realisation That Changed Everything
There was a time when I thought relationships would always stay the same.

That people who cared would always care.

That those who supported me would always be there.

But life doesn’t work like that.

One day, during a casual conversation, someone said something that stayed with me:

“You don’t lose people suddenly. You lose them slowly, in small moments when you stop valuing them.”

That line hit harder than expected.

Because when I thought about it, I realized —

it wasn’t distance that breaks relationships.

It’s neglect.

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[Tammy @the_tammyyy]

Then, you're not just you anymore.

You've become their answer, the missing piece, that thing that completes.

Crazy right😂? I know.

My mentor would say this should be gatekept.

But I've said it already so, wield this knowledge, if you want😂

✌️

[Tammy @the_tammyyy]

How?

Once you understand that feeling that someone lacks, you can tap into that desire.

You can position yourself as a possibility of fulfilling that desire, such that it draws them to you like a magnet.

You won't even need to sell yourself, they'll come looking for you😂.

[Tammy @the_tammyyy]

So you see, it's not about the person, or the relationship but the feeling you get from it.

People don't desire things or people for what or who they are, but because they represent what's missing inside.

Wanna know a secret👀?

Understanding this is another superpower😂

[Tammy @the_tammyyy]

When we get something that fills that void, we get hooked on it.

For instance, those of you in relationships, why do you love that person?

Because they make you feel like the only one in the world, they make you happy.

If they stop making you feel this way, someone else will.

[Tammy @the_tammyyy]

It's not about the car, or the clothes or the house, or the relationship(👀)

It's about the feeling they get from these things, the gaps they fill.

Cause a lot of times, we always feel like something's missing.

[Tammy @the_tammyyy]

On Desire📍

Y'know what I've come to realize?

People don't really want what they say they want.

You're probably wondering; "what's this girl saying?"😂

Don't worry, I'll explain.

Follow me🫴

[Tammy @the_tammyyy]

Focusing on your weakness makes your training harder.

But this is what real growth is.

Growth happens outside your comfort zone, so step out of it.

Attack your weakness and make it a strength❗

[Tammy @the_tammyyy]

If you want to learn something faster, stop stressing about what you already know.

Instead, find out which is holding you back and focus on improving it.

Mastery comes from focusing on the hardest part and not avoiding it.

[Tammy @the_tammyyy]

The Secret to Faster Learning📍

A lot of us make a very big mistake of practicing what you're already good at because it's comfortable or easy to.

But this doesn't exactly lead to progress or growth.

Instead try, targeting your weakness.

[Pampered by Abba👑 @IfeKiisha]

This is the time to do God,the harvest window is open
Do kingdom
Pour out every grace given to you
Go crazy with it
Wake up!
Can’t you see that the kingdom agenda is beyond the new job,laptop and spouse? Wake up saints.

[Eri'feoluwanimi😍 @AdeolaJoyce2]

Our emotions are like the breeze—you can feel them but can't hold them in your hands. Yet they are a big part of who we are.

[Eri'feoluwanimi😍 @AdeolaJoyce2]

Emotions are fascinating because they change so quickly. Like the way electricity goes on and off in Nigeria, or how the naira's value changes, our feelings can switch from high to low in moments.

[Eri'feoluwanimi😍 @AdeolaJoyce2]

Our emotions make us strong but can also make us weak. They influence how we make decisions—sometimes helping us, sometimes confusing us. But these feelings are what make us human.

[Eri'feoluwanimi😍 @AdeolaJoyce2]

It is important that we muster the courage to step forward, seek divine guidance, and embrace the risks associated with personal growth. Your journey toward greatness is within reach, should you choose to seize it.

[Eri'feoluwanimi😍 @AdeolaJoyce2]

Many individuals spend their lives within their comfort zones, remaining in jobs that provide just enough to cover basic needs or maintain a certain lifestyle.

[Eri'feoluwanimi😍 @AdeolaJoyce2]

Staying within the confines of our comfort does not equate to humility; instead, it may serve as a barrier that obstructs our path to realizing the greatness to which we are destined.