At age 30, I was already married.
Living in our rented apartment, driving a car & facing life head on, because I had assumed the responsibility of a husband.
All fingers aren't equal.
But if your bf is above 30, & showing poor signs of being responsible, leave him.
End.
@jon_d_doe It has been off more than 24 hours here in my area last week but when the phcn came for their monthly due,I ask them why and he said it's due to maintenance