I’m officially quitting interior design.
I’m very frustrated. You people have frustrated me out of this space!! I’m done!!!
For every time I go to do physical inspection, it’s either my male client is making sexual advances at me, putting if forward to me to have sex to secure the contract or they outrightly grope me on site. I can’t keep up with this!
I’m not a sex worker!!! If I want to do sex work, I’ll own it, I won’t use my work as a front.
I find myself negotiating, pleading or even outrightly begging to be taken seriously. This is not the way to live.
I’ve expressed respectfully and a few times disrespectfully, that my work is not a front.
I spend hours, sometimes days curating designs, space planning deliberating etc, but you people never give me a chance to express my myself, hell you don’t even care to look through or hear anything I have to say! just straight to sexualizing me. Like I’m not good for anything other than sexual pleasure.
This has badly affected my self esteem to the point where I feel like I’m not smart/good enough.
Am I cursed??!!
I experience this 99% of the time.
Let me not even speak on the ones who deliberately take my number from my business account, dm me, and pretend like they have houses to design just to physically meet up with me.
God will punish all of you!!
I’m writing this with utter pain and frustration!
I’m done. Y’all won.
I have realized that a lot of people are deeply uncomfortable with silence.
The other day I was seated with an elderly man, perhaps in his fifties, at a church function. We had just met and were waiting for others to join us, so there was no conversation to sustain, no familiarity to lean on. Just two people, side by side, in shared quiet.
But I noticed he kept twitching, shifting, searching for ways to initiate talk. There I was, uninterested, perfectly at ease in the stillness, yet it disturbed him greatly.
Eventually, he blurted out, almost anxiously, whether I had issues with speaking, because he felt he had been talking “to me” while my responses carried the unmistakable brevity of someone not interested in prolonging speech.
And it struck me that this is not limited to him. I have sat with many people who carry the same unease when everywhere is silent. It is as though they cannot function properly unless their mouths are moving, as though speech is proof of existence.
For someone like me, who prefers the clarity of silence over the emptiness of needless words, I have always found that trait rather strange.
Silence, since I have known it intimately, does not threaten. It reveals. And perhaps that is what unsettles many, that in silence, there is nothing to hide behind, nothing to perform with, nothing to distract from the naked confrontation with oneself.
If I ever leave this Lagos I will definitely miss my danfo experience😭
Passenger: how much
Conductor: #400
Passenger: I no reach bla bla bla now
Conductor: any bus stop is f*cking #400 naira mehn
😂😭ewo wa ni accent 😂
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@Onlineguru_ it wasn't at night. she went to read immediately after our biostatics class at 12:40 pm on tuesday so it wasn't night reading. my friend doesn't leave the hostel after 7pm.😭😭😭😭. if anybody can help us her friends and her family members get justice please🤲😭
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