LRT, contrary to popular opinion the “reward” for ending a relationship is not always going to be “finding someone better” sometimes you just find yourself and you’re happier, calmer, and more loving.
Your life is not a romcom, this is real life, baby.
can we normalize putting summaries on the back of books again instead of reviews? I just genuinely want to know what the book is about before picking it up.
I realized recently that relationships work best when you don’t place so much importance on how the person makes you feel but on who you’re becoming in the relationship
Breakups are part of relationships, don’t see it as something that shouldn’t happen, or else you begin to tolerate overstepped boundaries and disrespect in the name of fighting for the relationship
Who are you becoming, are you growing? Are you becoming more secure, more regulated, more expressive? If none is happening, you shouldn’t be there, no matter how you feel