You are the common denominator in every single one of your recurring interpersonal disasters. If you find yourself constantly surrounded by narcissists, repeatedly betrayed by friends, or perpetually unappreciated at work, it isn't just bad luck it is your unconscious boundaries, or lack thereof. You are subconsciously teaching people exactly how much disrespect you are willing to tolerate in exchange for not being alone, making you an active participant in your own exploitation.
According to attachment theory, genuine love is reflected in how someone responds to your pain, not just your presence. When someone truly values your wellbeing, their deepest fear isn't losing access to you - it's causing you harm. But when someone only loves what you provide for them they fear losing their supply, not hurting your heart. This subtle difference reveals everything about whether you're loved for who you are or what you give. Notice which one keeps them awake at night.
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Had a sponty weekend getaway to Ilocos πΎβ¨
Long drive, a little exhausting, but every mile was worth it for the views, the memories, and the reset. ππ