𝓚𝓪𝓻𝓵, RPm

25• 165cm• Psychometrician-mirror pics and dumb sht • ᕙ ( ⇀ ‸ ↼ ‶ ) ᕗ • 𝐝𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐫 𝐡𝐢𝐜 𝐭𝐢𝐛𝐢 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐭 𝐨𝐥𝐢𝐦 •

[𝓚𝓪𝓻𝓵, RPm @adobored]

Super shy.

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

According to attachment theory, genuine love is reflected in how someone responds to your pain, not just your presence. When someone truly values your wellbeing, their deepest fear isn't losing access to you - it's causing you harm. But when someone only loves what you provide for them they fear losing their supply, not hurting your heart. This subtle difference reveals everything about whether you're loved for who you are or what you give. Notice which one keeps them awake at night.

[❀ @xoxoceles]

what do you want?

[Jasmine @jasmineuphorie]

En l’honneur de la #lesbianvisibilityweek
À toutes les lesbiennes qui ont pris soin des hommes gays au début de l’épidémie de VIH-SIDA dans les années 80, alors que l’État, les médecins, familles les laissaient crever
Ce n’est pas pour rien que le L est la première lettre de LGBT

[Holekage of the Hidden Bussy Village ꕤ @CAdreamboy]

If I ever bottom for Hugh Jackman there will be signs

[Antidepressant Content @depressionlesss]

🐶: are u okay? 🐶: are u okay? 🐶: are u okay? 🐶: are u okay? 🐶: are u okay? 🐶: are u okay? 🐶: are u okay? 🐶: are u okay? 🐶: are u okay? 🐶: are u okay? 🐶: are u okay? 🐶: are u okay? 🐶: are u okay?

[🤠 @heavensbvnny]

Your trauma is not an excuse to be manipulative, nonchalant, or narcissistic towards good people.

[𝓚𝓪𝓻𝓵, RPm @adobored]

*loves

[The Gay Edit ☆ @TheGayEdit]

Gay to gay: I hope your next man actually likes you✨

[𝓚𝓪𝓻𝓵, RPm @adobored]

DILFs

[Juanita Broaddrick @atensnut]

Who was most handsome back then!

Me: Mel Gibson

[sam 🌿 @samuelbrillo]

pag dumating ka na sa late 20’s these metal shit don’t matter anymore

[lux @paperssil]

When gay guys turn 25, they have to pick a subclass:

- mental health bloggers / photoshoot models
- lgbt charity activists / speakers
- fitness and 10k run gays
- pokémon and/or digimon gays
- Stans
- books/film gays
- STEM and PhDs
- dog /or cat gays

[𝓚𝓪𝓻𝓵, RPm @adobored]

Just something to let go of my pasts and maybe start a new chapter. Life doesn’t always revolve on my cancer, some infatuations and my heartbreaks.

[𝓚𝓪𝓻𝓵, RPm @adobored]

Had a sponty weekend getaway to Ilocos 🌾✨
Long drive, a little exhausting, but every mile was worth it for the views, the memories, and the reset. 🚗💛

[J'nan @jnanayatra]

"Why do gay men fall in love so fast?" Maybe here is the answer you’ve been looking for ❤️

[𝓚𝓪𝓻𝓵, RPm @adobored]

@thisisbubblepop Happiest Birthdayyyy!!

[𝓚𝓪𝓻𝓵, RPm @adobored]

Hudson Williams fr

[swansong @Awildmustang_]

who do you think can pull THIS off???

[𝓚𝓪𝓻𝓵, RPm @adobored]

Where’s my cash?

[𝐌����𝐭𝐭 𝐏𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫 @Matt_Pinner]

Can you ?

[Anish Moonka @anishmoonka]

Your brain has a “wandering mode” that kicks in when you’re not focused on anything. In depressed people, this mode gets stuck on repeat, looping the same negative thoughts over and over. A 2025 brain scan study found that horror movies temporarily break that loop.

Researchers scanned the brains of 84 people with depression before and after showing them horror clips. The part of the brain responsible for replaying bad thoughts disconnected from the part that decides what to pay attention to. The bigger the disconnect, the more the person actually enjoyed the movie. Your brain can’t replay your worst memories when something on screen is trying to eat someone.

But scarier isn’t always better. The same team tested 216 people and found a sweet spot. Fear and enjoyment rise together, but only to a point, then enjoyment drops off. People with moderate depression needed a harder scare to hit that sweet spot. People with severe depression barely felt anything at all.

A 2021 study surveyed 310 people during the first COVID lockdown. Horror fans reported less depression, less anxiety, and better sleep than non-fans, even after the researchers accounted for personality differences. People who watched zombie and apocalyptic movies specifically said they felt more prepared for the pandemic.

Margee Kerr, a sociologist at the University of Pittsburgh, put brain sensors on 100 people before and after sending them through an extreme haunted house. About half came out in a better mood. Their brains had calmed down the same way a runner’s brain calms down after a long run. When you get scared, your body dumps dopamine (the “reward” chemical), endorphins (natural painkillers), and adrenaline all at once. When the scare ends, the comedown feels good.

Mathias Clasen, who runs the Recreational Fear Lab in Denmark (yes, that’s a real lab), splits horror fans into three types: people who watch for the adrenaline rush, “white knucklers” who push through fear to prove something to themselves, and “dark copers” who straight up treat horror movies like medicine for their anxiety or depression.

The catch: you have to choose to watch. That’s the whole thing. Being forced into a scary situation doesn’t help, it makes things worse. People with severe anxiety can become more jumpy, not less. A University of Wisconsin study found kids under 14 who watched horror had a higher chance of developing anxiety as adults. 93% of 1,600 Danish kids enjoy at least one scary activity according to a 2025 study, but the line between helpful fear and harmful fear comes down to one thing: whether you’re the one holding the remote.