Plantoholic, wife, mother, physicist, did I mention adopted? Coming out of the fog: like a car; going a little too fast and really should have fog lights on! ๐
Everyone needs a go to place for their mental health. As I battle through the adoptee fog I find, as it has always been, mine is my garden and allotments and the wildlife around them. Unabashedly obsessive but healing. #mentalhealth#gardens#pollinators#adoptionmeans
@neithskye I hear you:Try explaining to your Chinese teacher โI have 4 parents โ( even if half are dead and a quarter of the remainders wishes I was)! ๐... ๐especially when you say no, theyโre not step parents!! Mind blown
That moment when you realise your tub of cow manure that youโve bringing home to do a germination aminopyralid test has emptied into your rucksack as you cycled home ๐คฆโโ๏ธ#checkthelidnexttime#allotment#compost
@Steph_Hafferty And there was me thinking all my flowers to encourage pollinators were having the added side effect of increasing the yields of my fruiting crops and decreasing some pests by encouraging predators eg hover fly larva but no, apparently I just want to feel good about myself ๐
@bagshawsophie@Skull_Bloke To be fair itโs not exactly what youโd expect to turn up in a uk compost heap!! I wait with bated breath for what will appear in it next ๐
@laterskater__@themouthyoufeed@iamadopted Same. When I saw the psychiatrist with post natal depression and she brought up my adoption I was very much โI have no problem with adoption โ. She was rather โumm really?โ Disbelievingly...๐
My giant ginger decides this is the right time of year to flower...canโt feel itโs left it a little late (for the uk)๐ #ginger#gardens#greenhouse
@MaeveKelly11 And it then took another 20 odd years of them growing to see anything of myself in my children cos you know, family likeness is just not something Iโd ever got my head around in relation to myself ๐
* Adoption economics *
80% of services for adopted people in the UK have been cut. We have to pay ยฃยฃยฃ of own money to get support.
If you believe #adoptees should have free/subsidised support please RT so I can find funding to get amazing projects off the ground.