@Lostfoundadopt1@TLC I'm terrified of contacting family that doesn't know I exist. With that being said, my father is a mystery man from a party so 🤷🏾♀️
I spent today thinking about the ways I'm like my biological mom and wishing that we had relationship. I spent today with my adoptive thinking about how different we are. Neither one of them has any idea of the war in my head, the pain in my heart.
Not simply an event
“Adoption is a lifelong process which has to be integrated in different ways at different points in the lives of birthparents and adoptive parents”. -Jeanne Warren Lindsay, Open Adoption: A Caring Option -May the Circle be unbroken, by Lynn C. Franklin.
@sidman777@instantfamily@markwahlberg please FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THINGS GOOD AND TRUE educate yourself about the trauma of adoption BEFORE rushing out to adopt a child like they are a puppy from a shelter. PLEASE. I'd be more than willing to share any and everything I know... #adoptee#iamadopted
@gracepinghua @chemcoco I'll never forget the first time that I saw my birthdate on an official document. I almost cried because I thought for sure that my mom had just made it up...like changing my name.
In a heated FB discussion about adoption (duh) someone was angry with me and others for suggesting that international adoptions are often unethical and more closely related to human trafficking - his children recently adopted and "orphan" from Africa. This
For a "better life"; and to satisfy your desires whatever they may be. BUT it's not ok for those same children to legally come to our country as a whole family unit to seek asylum as a means of obtaining that SAME "better life"?
Please help me understand 🤷🏾♀️
same person was angry with me for suggesting that we find a better use of $$ than to send troops to the border over asylum seekers.
So help me understand this: it's ok to buy "poor and abandoned" children from impoverished countries and bring them to USA