Being sick is already painful enough, but being sick when you and your friends had plans?? ๐ญ
Now they have to go without you, and youโre just there hoping they have fun because you donโt want them to feel bad for you. ๐ฅฒ
Like please, I just wanted to go out with my people ๐ญ
Some things are not about being โthe first to expose.โ Sometimes you need to think about the HUMAN BEING involved.
Because this is somebodyโs actual life, not episode 17 of a reality show. ๐ญ
Even if she decides not to go ahead, can she magically get back all the money, time, excitement and peace she has lost?
Can she get her sanity back??
And the funniest part is everybody is now acting like โweโre just telling the truth.โ
At this point, what do you want from her? ๐ญ
Someone has spent months preparing for her wedding, buying things, planning, getting excited, probably imagining the whole dayโฆ and now, literally HOURS before the wedding, you people are dropping bombshells everywhere.
My point is: WHY NOW???
You knew this man before. You knew things about him. You allegedly had experiences with him. Fine. But why wait until the woman is literally at the doorstep of her wedding before bringing everything out?
Because what exactly is the point of waiting till NOW??
If you genuinely knew something that could affect her decision to marry this man, why didnโt you speak when there was still TIME for her to process everything and make her own decision?
What exactly were you people expecting her to do? Cancel the wedding by 11pm? Remove her gele? Return the wedding gown? Tell all the vendors โsorry guys, we just found out something tonightโ?? ๐ญ๐ญ
All of you knew. Nobody said anything. Nobody posted anything. Nobody came out with any story.
Now one night before her wedding, everybody suddenly remembered their โtruthโ??? ๐ญ