@Mutualaidboost2 Anything would help and I would send you a silly arts if you DM’d me if you sent anything! This is for some bills I’m behind on since getting on unemployment 🥺
@Mutualaidboost2 $Exhaltedhabit on cashapp anything would help with backpay on rent! Currently unemployed let go in April and just trying to keep above as best I can!
Uncommon advice: If you don't know what to pursue in life right now. Pursue yourself. Pursue becoming the healthiest, happiest, most healed, most present, most confident version of yourself. Then the right path will reveal itself.
You reach a stage of loving yourself when you grasp that if they hurt you to such a degree, they don’t *deserve* your hyper-analyzations and humanizing. That’s just another form of ppl pleasing bc it’s you coming up with excuses. Boundaries are boundaries- end of
it’s a bit ridiculous to say “the time you spend scrolling could be spent building a business/writing a novel/reading the classics”. sometimes that’s true but usually scrolling happens as a result of cognitive fatigue, and the idea that you can just “swap in” another intellectually demanding task means you’re treating your body/mind as a machine
a better approach would be “the time you spend scrolling could be spent taking a stroll/napping/staring out the window/having a meandering conversation with a friend”. that’s both more palatable and probably what we’re actually craving when we reach for our phone: a brief break from the demands of life, and a time to let our mind relax
“Nobody wants to work anymore.”
No, people are just tired of:
• giving their whole life to a company that sees them as replaceable
• working overtime like it’s a personality trait
• getting “we appreciate you” instead of a raise
• sacrificing weekends just to survive Monday
• being loyal and still getting laid off in a random email
People don’t hate work.
They hate being exploited.