Àgbà will always teach you what is real.
It's up to you to either accept it or you learn the hard way.
If you forgive a woman for what she knows she shouldn't be forgiven for, she'll punish you for it and still blame you for forgiving her.
Keep hating.
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A woman can sleep with you all year in same bed as your girlfriend or whoever, & you still won’t be her dream man .
A man can be so nice and caring to you. and you won’t still be his dream wife .
It doesn't even make the woman comfortable in the relationship or marriage.
She'll be walking on eggshells not to make the man feel she's disrespecting him because she's older.
And women naturally fight with their mouths.
Anything she says will be used against her.
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Hell just text her randomly through the day. Let her know how much you appreciate her especially if she’s going above and beyond and making drastic changes in our life. Let her know she looks beautiful today. Just let her know you’re thinking about her, it makes her day!
I concur. I’ve never needed a guy with money since I’ve always been the breadwinner I’ll be with you broke on the bus on the way to the food stamp office it’s always been personality and how much they like me. That makes me care for them. I never minded helping!
@BuddyNoLove I legit had a man call me a liar when I told him I wasn't interested in only his money.
Financial security is one thing, but like damn I just want somebody I can cook for and cuddle with 😩
Some women really be that simple.
The issue in dealing with a man that doesn’t have any money is not actually that he doesn’t have any money. It’s that he thinks money is what makes a man and will actively project his current self loathing onto all of his interactions with others even if they want to help