Unfortunately, sometimes you have to be a little mean to make people realize you're not someone to be played with. Not everyone respects kindness, but they will respect boundaries.
I don’t tell nobody what’s going on with me anymore ever since I learned people talk and clown behind your back , idc how close you think you are to people , DO NOT share your business, getting though it on your own is hard at first but it’s a 10/10 in the end .