I don’t mind adapting to the needs/wants of people I care about, especially if it’s no strain to me. The problem is when that courtesy isn’t extended to me
You cannot say that babies are a gift from god while arguing that they are also the ‘punishment’ that whores get for not closing their legs. Why does god bless whores with babies while some of his favourite women who want them can’t get them? How can a blessing be a punishment?