Let me be REAL for a minute: You cannot work full time, stay in great shape, be an amazing spouse, be a great parent, keep up with every friend, build a business, invest, grow your wealth, travel, read, have hobbies, keep the house together, answer every text, eat perfectly, sleep 8 hours a night and somehow be fully present for ALL OF IT. That’s complete bullshit.
The man who coached his ex through the bank assessment before she said she was no longer comfortable is not the loser of the story.
Men who help without keeping score are laying foundations they cannot see yet.