Alhamdulillah! Starting my day with an early dose of Du'a from my beloved father as he fully regains consciousness, begins to eat, move&speak. Masha Allah.
I'm moved to some tears of joy right now, Allah is indeed in control of our affairs&he sees, hears. He's sufficient for us!
One hospital bill can wipe out 5 years of your savings.
Don't just hustle without taking care of your health
Don't sacrifice your sleep
Don't sacrifice your diet.
When you're looking for things to protect, choose your health first.
Please do not date people you are not genuinely attracted to. And when I say attraction, I don’t mean only physical attraction. I mean emotional attraction, mental attraction, compatibility, admiration, the way they make you feel, the way you naturally enjoy their presence and connect with them.
Because if you date someone mainly to fill a void, escape loneliness, seek validation, or temporarily soothe emotional emptiness, there’s a high chance that once those feelings fade, the relationship starts feeling forced. You begin to lose patience easily, act distant, get irritated over little things, avoid communication, or subconsciously search for what’s missing elsewhere.
A lot of people don’t realize that attraction is what helps sustain effort, curiosity, emotional connection, and intentionality long term. Without it, relationships can slowly start feeling like obligations instead of something you genuinely want to nurture.
And honestly, it’s unfair to both people involved. The other person deserves to be loved fully and genuinely, not tolerated because you were afraid to be alone at the time.
i genuinely think one of the most intimate things in the entire world is wanting someone when you’re tired like wow i just had the longest day ever & don’t want to speak to anyone but i really want you next to me
Adult friendships are so funny because you really just lose a friend on a random day after realizing you clearly don’t mean anything to this person, while at one point they meant the world to you.
Fortunately, this doesn’t change the price of bread, so good riddance and stuff🤘🏾