You have to prepare for the reality of being alone. Maybe now. Maybe later. Maybe in your old age. As your children grow, they could outgrow you, maybe because you failed them, maybe you failed to meet their expectations or maybe because life pulls them elsewhere. Spouses leave. Friends drift. Romantic partners change their minds. Such ladies and gentlemen is life.
So factor it in. Properly. Donβt build a life that collapses when people exit the frame. Learn to sit with yourself without panic.
If you donβt make peace with your own company, you will always negotiate your dignity just to avoid loneliness. And that is a far worse fate than being alone.
Being an adult means deciding to be happy with all the odds & challanges against you or else the odds will nibble on you day in & day out.. Wake up & Rock
At this point I must protest and point out that itβs not a duty of a parent to do the homework but to supervise and ensure that the child goes to school with finished homework. I must also hasten to add that the role of the parent is to help the child find the answers.
@Buti_Hlomz @Tumzaza3 Zwane was actually asked about the club not having replaced Katsande and he said something along the lines of wanting a ball playing CM rather than a hard tackling player only.. itβs on one of the post or pre match interviews he had before season end.