Ajay Hadiya

Thinker and Observer, IIT Kharagpur

[Ajay Hadiya @AjayHadiya6]

I’ve become fluent in a language nobody taught me: silence.

I’ve spoken silently for most of my life.

I’ve swallowed words.
Hidden pain.
Smiled through things I couldn’t explain.

I’ve lived through entire tragedies without telling anyone.

People heard my silence.
They never heard what it was saying.

[Ajay Hadiya @AjayHadiya6]

Once you’ve rebuilt yourself from scratch, starting over stops looking like failure and starts looking like a skill.

[Ajay Hadiya @AjayHadiya6]

@IAmSteveHarvey Probably something that pays me to disappear for a few hours, think deeply and call it “research.”

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@misthid3x Typical human behaviour

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@coffeelickcoco Same here

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Don’t return to the place that broke you just because you miss the memories. Nostalgia has a terrible habit of editing out the red flags.

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@thedankoe Six months of silence can do what six years of “staying connected” sometimes can’t. Remove the noise, build yourself, and let the results reintroduce you.

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@oye_nishhu Yes. Definitely.

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@_Chemist1 Nothing frustrates an attention seeker more than realizing they performed a whole show for an audience that left.

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@Nithya_Shrii Your nervous system knows who your real enemies are. your heart just keeps giving them guest access.

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@Dearme2_ I’ve spent years building my life. I’m not letting 60 seconds of bad judgment become the most expensive minute of my life.

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@DearS_o_n the people with the most to prove usually have the least to show for it.

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@DonWilbert_ Right

[Ajay Hadiya @AjayHadiya6]

Men have survived months without sex. The real challenge is surviving a month without mentioning how much they miss it. 😄

[Jenny 😇 @Jennyperrys7]

No man is surviving a full month without sex.

[Ajay Hadiya @AjayHadiya6]

@1947aansh_ Wo bhi hai 😄

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If she believed in you before the money did, make sure she gets to enjoy the life you built after it. 🥂

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@oye_nishhu Feelings may change, but that’s why you don’t just marry someone you’re crazy about you marry someone you can still laugh with, respect and choose when the butterflies take a day off.

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@oye_nishhu I don’t need a perfect girlfriend. I need one who can handle my silence, my stupid jokes and still choose me on the days I’m difficult. 😂

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@ameya735115 Great 😄

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@_Chemist1 your brain can suggest the worst idea with full confidence. Intelligence is knowing you don’t have to sign off on every thought it sends you.

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@sprahajoshi That’s great news

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@DearS_o_n Funny how nobody attends the construction site, but everyone wants a tour when the building is finished.