You can't kill a dog like you kill a fowl, talk more of the daughter of the LION OF THE TRIBE OF JUDAH.
So if you are after me, seeking for my downfall, please back off before you wound yourself.
Dear wives,
If you catch your husband cheating on you, you have the right to be angry.
But you don't have the right to cheat back.
This is what you may wish to do:
Before you confront him, make sure that you have prepared his meal.
Then you serve him.
Wait until he finishes the food.
Then you go sit close to him, rubbing his head and chest, gently.
Look straight into his eyes with a wicked smile.
"My darling husband, I see that you enjoyed the food. But I must tell you this: I was not happy with you when I was preparing the food, because you're cheating on me. Don't try to deny it because I have proof (don't tell him what proof you have). Please don't do it again. "
Kiss his forehead, pack the plates and go to bed or get busy with other things.
Your husband will be praying that you did not poison the food.
Do not confront him, and do not discuss it again, with him.
His conscience will continue to preeq him until he finds a way to apologise.
But do not expect him to say:
"My lovely wife, I am sorry that I cheated on you. I won't do it again."
As a wife, you should be able to recognize when your husband is apologizing without necessarily saying it verbatim.
I didn't write this post for you immature minds.
Or you holier than thous.
If the post no clear for your head, walka and pass.
That doesn't mean that you should not disagree.
Just disagree with sense and decorum.
End.
My friend proposed to his girlfriend a few weeks ago and they are already deep into marriage preparations.
But he wanted to run a greed test on her first.
He got a new SIM, a different phone and started chatting with her as a secret admirer. He promised to send her money for shopping. She refused to drop her account details.
So he used her Opay number and sent her 300,000 naira directly.
He sent the screenshot. She replied, "Thank you, but I never asked you though."
He then asked her to come see him at a hotel. She refused. He asked her to refund the money. She refused. Then she blocked him.
She never mentioned any of it to my friend.
And she kept the 300,000 naira.
Did she pass the test?
Above all, love God.