One thing I don’t struggle with is jealousy. Especially in a relationship. Like a ke boulelwe MARA disrespect and overfamiliarity does annoy me - not from a place of jealousy but from a place of self cav. Like how dare you?
There's certain people that you cannot speak on specific topics with because they don't have the range, the knowledge, the empathy or the depth, to even understand where the fuck you're coming from.
Dated one for almost 3 years and I never used a cent of my money the whole time. If I ever needed to swipe my card it was with money he just sent to my account, he would ask me if I had money and send me some on top of a monthly allowance but he was a Jonasi, the AIDS was near 🫠
I think you guys say this in a very blanket way that doesn’t take into account a lot of people’s realities.
This is why social media advice is dangerous.
Women lose sexual interest when they're emotionally disappointed, and I’m not going to argue about that. A woman can love you deeply, stay loyal, support you through hard times, and still slowly disconnect the moment she feels unheard, unappreciated, or emotionally neglected. Most people think attraction disappears because of looks, time, or routine, but emotional disappointment is what quietly changes everything.
I don’t think men understand the intricacies of being a man. I see men like Jonasi, who are rich but poor in character and sexual discipline and I’m reminded once against how a man with no sexual integrity is a liability that will cost himself and everyone around him everything.