akinyemi olanrewaju, from ibeshe,yewa north local government,in ogun state,work and stay in Abuja. A medical practitioner. single . humble ,kindness,intelligent
Anyone who undermines your financial security and disturbs your mental harmony is your enemy, no matter how beautiful they are. As a single person, if you get into a relationship with someone and from that time your account no longer balances, or goes into the red, or you start borrowing, you are sleeping with the enemy. Apart from marriage, there is no stage in any relationship where you assume financial responsibility for the other party. That is not forming a bond. That is going into bondage. Once that happens, you stop being their partner and start being their parent.
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It is impossible to distinguish between a glass of stout and a glass of malt from afar. At face value, salt and sugar are indistinguishable. Even weeds, herbs and vegetables are identical on the surface. That is why you shouldn't marry based on physical features unless you want your futures to be diabolical. Never be in a hurry to marry, or your marriage may not be merry. Wedlock is not a competition. In rushed matrimony, it is often a case of first in, first out!
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If, indeed, you go to work to feed your family, then it is better for your work to suffer because of your family than for your family to suffer because of your work. Never forget that you are easily replaceable at work, but hardly can be replaced at home. In fact, if an AI can do your work, your boss will fire you and hire it. Your boss loves your work. Your family loves you. So choose wisely who you prioritise.
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Thank God it is Jumu'ah. Jumu'ah Mubarak to the blessed Muslim ummah. May Almighty God, the Creator of al-Jannah and Earth, hear your prayers as you gather for Salatul-Jumu'ah and approve them, even as I pray that He grants you forgiveness of your sins.
May He give you the energy to fast, pray and meditate on your teachings of al-Quran and the Hadiths of the prophet as you congregate for Salatul-Jumu'ah.
May your dua help you attain Sabr, develop Mahabat Allah in you, and result in shifa to all those currently experiencing ill health.
And having seen fit to let us see another Jumu'ah, may Al-Ḥakam (The Giver of Justice) fill our hearts with Iman, Sabr and Taqwa. May the Almighty grant us the best among humanity. May our lives benefit others, even as we approach the Maulud of prophet Muhammad, (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasalaam).
Finally, may barakah be bestowed on the Muslim Ummah and their neighbours because, as we know, any dua from a sincere and pure heart is never rejected. Amin.
Jumu'ah Mubarak once again.
If you are in your forties and still care what other people think of you, you can't be happy. Joy can only come from living life according to your expectations, not other people's expectations. How can you spend your life up to forty acting for people and still not be tired? Be yourself, no matter what people say. This is your only life on Earth. Stop acting for people and start living for yourself!
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Don't be fooled into thinking that intelligence is best displayed by speaking big grammar. Actually, what you are displaying is a big ego. Think of the most intelligent people you know. Whether now or in history. Think of Yeshua (Jesus), Socrates, Einstein and even contemporary people like Dangote. Their intelligence lies in their ability to tackle complicated subjects using everyday language. You amplify your intelligence when you can simplify what others mystify.
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It is a liability for you to let people know how rich you are. It is not a flex. That is just your poverty mentality talking. When people know how wealthy you are, they start expecting from you in a way that is not healthy. So be stealthy about your affluence, and don't display opulence, or you will lose your influence when you don't give in to the demands of the populace. Letting them know you are rich is not a problem. But exposing how rich you actually are is the challenge!
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If you remove people who go to church to ward off enemies, or in search of financial breakthroughs, or those seeking other favours from God, such as the fruit of the womb, life partners, promotion, etc, and others who are absolutely scared stiff about going to hell and leave only those who go to church without any agenda other than love for God, many churches in our society will be either empty or sparsely populated. There is a huge difference between faith and religion, and between Godliness and churchiness!
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Artificial Intelligence will threaten your marriage if it focuses on coitus, childbearing, child-rearing, and housekeeping rather than human companionship and life partnerships. Why? Because AI can now give you a robotic girlfriend. Technology can get a woman pregnant through a sperm donor from any race she wants. She doesn't have to meet him, and he doesn't have to pay child support. Social systems exist where, if you have money, others can raise your children for you. You can even get governesses, nannies and au pairs online, and they arrive at your house the next day. In other words, the only thing AI, technology and modernity can provide is a genuine heart-to-heart connection with a real flesh-and-blood person. Everything else in a marriage, other than that warmth and bonding, can now be outsourced to AI or technology!
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@ojumah@AllenChiejine@davido@inecnigeria Òdè.. which will of a determined Nigeria? It'd only evil doer like you won't like Tinubu and his effort .. àwòn were.. do you think mumu Davidoff care abt u or any Nigerian?. His qnd his family are just suckimg osun state and their secret will be expose soon if they loose
Delaying gratification is good. It gives you the discipline to endure short-term pain so you can enjoy long-term gain. But there is a catch. Too much of anything is bad. When you get into your fifties, like me, delaying gratification isn't always wise. Bear the yoke in your youth, not when you have your wisdom tooth. How much is your life expectancy? Enjoy your gratification now. Travel. Buy or lease that car. If you are a widower or widow and it still works, marry for pleasure, not for childbearing. You did not come to this life to suffer. So offer yourself a buffer before you suffer death.
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Thank God it is Jumu'ah. On this blessed day, I salute the Muslim Ummah and all Ahl al-Kitāb. My prayer for you today is that Almighty God will grant the Ummah and other people of the Book barakah, sabr, maghfira, rida, hidayah, shifa, salama, and tawfeeq in their daily jihad of self-improvement.
We also pray for lasting, peaceful religious coexistence among Nigerians and in other parts of the world where multi-religion, multi-ethnicity, and multiculturalism are realities.
That is why I have maintained in the past and still advocate that every Christian pupil must mandatorily study Islamic Religious Knowledge, whilst each Muslim student should compulsorily learn Christian Religious Knowledge, while children from Traditional African Religious backgrounds should learn either of the two.
Not for the purpose of conversion, but so we can understand each other as a people, because it is impossible to forget our differences. In my opinion, a better course of action is to manage such differences by raising awareness.
As we demonstrate cultural fusion in our daily lives, may it permeate our hearts and affect our interactions with other Nigerians and the global community.
May God bless your Salatul-Jumu'ah. May God bless Nigeria!
Juma'at Mubarak
You are either selling your time for money, which is what we call a job, or using your money to make more money, which is what we call investing. Those are the only two ways to make money constantly. Every other way of making money is just a variation of these two paths. However, the first way destroys your health, while the second way restores it. Therefore, if you want to thrive in this lifetime, don't see your salary as spending money. No matter how small your wages are, see them as capital. Use your capital to invest your way out of poverty, because it is almost impossible to work your way out of penury.
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Olamide has not only dominated the music game for years now but also played a pivotal role in the rise of artistes; Like Lil Kesh, Asake, Adekunle Gold, Fireboy, Zlatan, Bella, and many more. Even the likes of Portable gained stardom thanks to Olamide's influence. Many of the music and artistes Nigerians hype today (that keeps the afrobeats movement going) is as a result of Olamide's mindset to create, and gift.
When it also comes to hit songs, that is, songs that actually has lyrical quality, no artiste from his era can go toe to toe with him. Comparing him with colleague who started before, or after him is beyond disrespectful.
Which other artiste has that longevity, street impact, successful record label, and can be linked to the success of rising stars?
He is one of one.
In Saudi Arabia, whether you are the leader or a beggar, you are buried the same day you die, wrapped in a white cloth, in a simple, unmarked grave. And when they marry, their weddings are typically modest affairs. Yet, Saudi Arabia has one of the highest life expectancies on Earth at 80 years, and among the lowest divorce rates on the planet at 2.18 divorces per 1,000 marriages. Perhaps we can learn one or two things from the Saudis. Spending money on the living and thereby extending their lives is better than wasting funds on their burial to extend your ego, and having modest nuptials leaves you with more money and energy to make your marriage a success rather than just an excess!
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Stop arguing with angry people. It almost always ends badly, and you get burned. If a pot is hot, you don't grab it at that point. You leave it to cool. And when it cools, you can touch it as much as you want. That is how to treat angry folk. Leave them alone until they calm down. When they calm down, you can then reason with them. The alternative is to get burnt.
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Artificial Intelligence will be a threat to your marriage if it is not based on human companionship and life partnerships, but rather focused on coitus, childbearing, child-rearing, and housekeeping. Why? Because AI can now give you a robotic girlfriend. Technology can get a woman pregnant through a sperm donor from any race she wants. Social systems exist where, if you have money, others can raise your children for you. In other words, the only thing AI, technology and modernity can provide is a genuine heart-to-heart connection with a real flesh-and-blood person. Everything else in a marriage, other than that warmth and bonding, can now be outsourced to AI or technology!
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Can you do without your salary? If the answer is no, then you are addicted to salary. That is why you should invest. Because unless you can do without your salary, you are a person with an addiction who is controlled by your supplier, which in this case is your employer. Saying stuff like 'how much am I even earning that I should invest?' That is not the point. Every month or week, your boss gives you your salary, which is like an egg. What you want to do is not to eat that egg, but to wait until it hatches into a Hen. A hen lays an egg daily. Therefore, when you have your own egg, your salary becomes an optional income, rather than a necessary one that you can't do without.
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As long as you are comparing yourself to your own idyll and where you are to where you like to be, you will have the determination to succeed. But when you start comparing yourself to other people and where you are to where they are, you may end up with an inferiority complex. There will always be someone ahead of you in life. And even that person ahead of you has others ahead of them. Simply making progress and being better today than you were yesterday is enough. Anything else leads to self-destruction instead of self-improvement!
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