Sometimes I accidentally accept the bare minimum trying to be considerate of what others are going through & that is a habit I need to let go of expeditiously
It’s always “im in love with you” it’s never “im going to diligently work on my abandonment wounds so i can offer you a care that is hinged upon sustainability and transcendent consideration”
one of the saddest things about loving someone who hasn’t healed is realizing that your love feels like pressure to them. your need for clarity feels like a demand. your vulnerability feels like conflict. your attempts to fix things feel like an attack. and slowly, you start apologizing for having needs, expressing feelings, and asking for the very things they never learned how to give.
I recently read something that I can't stop thinking about. It said, There is a line that should never be crossed. When someone knows you are facing one of the hardest times of your life and still chooses to disrespect you or add to your stress, something darker is at play. Cruelty in moments of deep vulnerability is intentional. And when a person can hurt you while knowing how fragile you are, that kind of betrayal changes how you see them forever.
@shawtyastrology I am a Taurus rising at 14° trining my Virgo Venus (5H) at 19°! I’ve been told I can sing but my shyness/stage fright is hard to overcome 🙈