Another form of low self esteem is definitely being too available to people who have shown you countless times that they lack a sense of urgency and enthusiasm towards you. I know its hard but regulate your nervous system to calm down.
Stop dating neurodivergent women if you refuse to understand how deeply inconsistency affects them. Mixed signals, emotional unpredictability, and changing expectations aren’t harmless they can be genuinely distressing. Empathy isn’t optional in a healthy relationship.
Ghana is great with counter attacking & defence is great right now against the English team lol but I can’t my anxiety is waiting for Ghana to start getting shots on target
once you cut people out of your life, you need to become very comfortable with them talking bad and making things up about you. bc they will fill your silence and your absence with stories that make them feel better about losing access to you. people rarely take accountability when it’s easier to paint you as the villain.
I hate when people apologize but completely bypass the self-reflection.
If you can't articulate what you did wrong and acknowledge how it affected me, your "sorry" is just a tool to clear your own conscience.
It is crazy how a single moment of misunderstanding can become so toxic that it makes you forget the thousands of lovely moments you have spent together with someone. Anger has a terrible way of rewriting history.
I don't believe in revenge but I do believe if you entered my life with bad intentions and tried to take advantage of my kindness in any way, you will eventually reap what you attempted to sow.
The most toxic people are the ones who never apologize because, in their delusional mind, they’re always the victim, always right, and never the problem.