Abusive people always seem to have amnesia towards everything except their own victomhood. Like how do you remember your childhood trauma and your mom neglecting you to go to work, but you don’t remember abusing 1235 people over the course of 15 years.
Don’t compare your fruit. We are all in different seasons. Some are reaping harvests and some are sowing seeds. Tend to your own garden and trust nature’s cycles.
I think the best thing I’m learning as an adult is to ignore people. When you realize people say & do weird & evil things to get a reaction out of you , you learn that silence is more powerful than proving a point. No response is the loudest response.
I’m so glad I don’t have a victim mindset. My life never stops because of what someone did to me, what didn’t work out, or my upbringing not being the best always. I always get up and continue to give my best.