Norival😍🤍

Muslimah, Registered Nurse (RN), Apple of her parents eyes🤭 Chelseafc

[Norival😍🤍 @AlawayeMar]

Louddddddd itttttttt

[Norival😍🤍 @AlawayeMar]

Louddddddd itttttttt

[West Side @west_side_ib]

We have something starting today.

Ibadan are you readyyyy.

[Norival😍🤍 @AlawayeMar]

Most people spend more time taking pictures than enjoying the rave.

[West Side @west_side_ib]

What opinion about raves would have you like this?

[rae_timzy @omo_Akinbile]

‼️URGENT CALL FOR HELP ‼️

Olabisi Olaoluwa, a final-year MBBS student at the University of Ibadan, suffered an *ACL tear* in September 2025.

Despite months of conservative treatment including physiotherapy and medical management, his condition has worsened with persistent pain and knee instability.

Specialists have now advised an *urgent arthroscopic ACL reconstruction surgery* as the only viable solution to prevent further damage and restore mobility.

The surgery and rehabilitation will cost *₦3.5 million,* by God’s grace and your generosity ₦1,6890,000 has been raised so far.

We urgently appeal for your support. Every donation, regardless of the amount, can make a difference.

Wema Bank
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Olabisi Olaoluwa Christopher

For enquiries/support:
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May God bless every helping hand.🙏

[H’s mom @aiishadahir]

Umrah this Ramadan for this reader and I just say Ameen, nothing is impossible🫶

[Norival😍🤍 @AlawayeMar]

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[Dr. Ose Etiobhio @osemagnum]

VAGINISMUS:

THIS HAS DESTROYED MANY HOMES.

NO, SHE'S NOT PRETENDING.

READ, SHARE AND REPOST.

Dear Women and Men, come and learn...,

When the Body Says No: Vaginismus, Silence, and the Myth of a Closed Door

They come quietly, these messages, and they often begin the same way, Dear Doc, and then a confession wrapped in confusion, and sometimes shame. I married my wife as a virgin, and yet it feels like something is blocked, and I can touch her, and we can linger in foreplay, but when it is time for intercourse, the door closes. And in that sentence, a woman is almost turned into a riddle, and sometimes into a suspect. As though her body has decided to be wicked. As though pain is rebellion. As though fear is witchcraft.

But let us say this clearly, and say it gently, and say it loudly enough to undo years of silence: this is not witchcraft. She is not wicked. Her body is not conspiring against love.
This is called vaginismus, and it is far more common than we admit, and far more human than we allow.
Vaginismus is the body tightening when it should soften, and closing when it should welcome, and doing so without permission from the mind. It is an involuntary spasm of the vaginal muscles during penetration, during sex, during examinations, sometimes even during the thought of penetration.

Many women say, my vagina is blocked or I am too small, and what they are really saying is that their body has learned fear. And this fear does not belong only to first-timers, although many first sexual experiences are marked by it. It belongs also to women who have had sex before, and to women who have known trauma, and to women whose bodies remember pain from surgery, from radiotherapy, from infections, from stories whispered by aunties about how sex is suffering and womanhood is endurance. It belongs to women who were assaulted, and to women who grew up learning that sex is danger dressed as desire.

And yes, vaginismus has broken hearts, and strained marriages, and turned bedrooms into battlegrounds of guilt and misunderstanding. But it is not a moral failure. It is not stubbornness. It is not punishment. It is the body doing what bodies do when they feel unsafe, protecting itself.

So what do we do, when the body says no?
We begin with belief, belief in the woman, and belief that healing is possible. We begin with counselling, especially when there has been sexual trauma, because the body listens closely to the mind. We seek help not from one person, but from a team, the gynaecologist, and the psychologist, and the counsellor, and the physiotherapist, and the specialist nurse, because vaginismus is not a single story and cannot be solved by a single voice. We talk about lifestyle, and hydration, and the quiet power of pelvic floor exercises like Kegels, and we talk about lubricants, yes, generously, and some that soothe pain as they ease entry. We talk about patience, and vaginal massage, and gentle exploration, sometimes guided, sometimes slow, sometimes awkward, and always kind.

We talk about foreplay, not as a prelude, but as a language of reassurance. And sometimes, when anxiety refuses to loosen its grip, we use medication to help the body learn calm again. Vaginal dilators may be used, slowly and consistently, not to force the body open, but to teach it that opening does not equal harm. Surgery, we say clearly, is rare, and only for true physical obstruction, not for fear, not for memory.
This is a big issue, yes, and it can unmake intimacy if left alone in the dark. But it is also a treatable one. Help exists. Compassion works. Conversations heal.

And so, if your body has been saying no, listen to it, not with anger, but with curiosity. Seek help. Book consultations. Treat infections. Drink water. Be patient. Be gentle. Because sometimes the door is not locked.
Sometimes, it is only afraid.

[H’s mom @aiishadahir]

Your Nikkah is coming, your job is coming, your blessings are coming. Just trust in His planning. Don’t rush. indeed الله is the best of planners

[• @Al__Quraan]

Sorry to interrupt your scrolling, but may your next trip be to Mecca. Ameen

[West Side @west_side_ib]

Roses fade🌹
Riddim stays 🔥

A Valentine rave for lovers, heartbreakers, and night creatures.

Red lights. Heavy bass. No rules.

If your heart can handle the bass, pull up!

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[IB’25 @Ibadan25]

EVENT OF THE YEAR 2025

[Norival😍🤍 @AlawayeMar]

You can't afford to miss it 🔥

[West Side @west_side_ib]

🚨BREAKING NEWS:

Westside is in 8 days.

We’re giving away 8 free VIP tickets worth N120,000.

Every interaction counts.

Follow and turn on notifications. 🔔

[Norival😍🤍 @AlawayeMar]

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[Norival😍🤍 @AlawayeMar]

@Olamhidc @west_side_ib You don't want to miss the rave💃🔥

[Norival😍🤍 @AlawayeMar]

Ib city peopleeeee
Masked to the Max is in 2 days 💃💃
Come rave with us
Location: The Patio, bashorun Ibadan.
You don't want to miss this edition guyyy

[West Side @west_side_ib]

WESTSIDERS❗❗

GET READY

NOV. 15TH!

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[Norival😍🤍 @AlawayeMar]

We outsideeeeee 🔥

[West Side @west_side_ib]

WESTSIDERS❗

The anticipation is real. We're bringing the heat, and we're giving you a sneak peek of the night that will own the year.

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[West Side @west_side_ib]

WESTSIDERS ❗

🔥 THE WAIT IS OVER! 🔥

This isn't just a rave, it's an experience.

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[Norival😍🤍 @AlawayeMar]

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[Murse Danie 💉💊 @Nrs_Danie]

If you’ve ever had the thought of tasting IV Dextrose solution just out of curiosity to know if it tastes like sugar or not, just like and retweet this.
I know I’m not alone…