I can’t wait to get married, make my husband a daddy then throw him big cookouts at our house & shower him with nice gifts. I got it all planned out lmfaooooo
You don't really know a man until:
-You travel with him.
-Money is involved.
-You see him when he's angry.
-You live with him.
-You see how he acts when he's drunk or high.
-You tell him "no".
-You see how he deals with loss or grief.
- He doesn't get to sleep with you whenever he wants.
-He's broke or has limited funds.
-You see how he treats his family, friends, and complete strangers.
Somewhere in your 20s or 30s you’ll get the opportunity to rebuild your life after a negative loop, heal from what broke you, live in your own space, reconnect with your discipline, and learn to love yourself again. It’s very important that you see that journey through.
Ngl I don't like nonchalant men. Be dominant, check on me. Be affectionate. Tell me I'm gorgeous. Plan dates. Buy me flowers. Be absolutely obsessed with me
A nigga could eat your ass, put his tongue in your vagina hole & not talk to you for the next day…like wtf ?? I stay far away from emotionally unstable/unavailable men
Sometimes I accidentally accept the bare minimum trying to be mindful of what others have going on and that is a flaw that I need to let go expeditiously!!