Whiskey drinking, wit slinging, West Coast living wildflower •
Artist | Adventurer | Amicable Alien •
Book of poetry coming soon. • IG: @alessandrazevara
@LordHuron around midnight I sent you an IG comment asking if you'd be doing a second night at Hollywood Forever so I lowkey feel like this was my idea and I manifested it. You're welcome, fellow fans. Stoked to see y'all again for the third time live 💚
.@ZacEfron looks easily 1000% more attractive in Down to Earth than with the Baywatch workouts. I've never been stoked on the dehydrated and 'roided out muscles look.
dude on dating app: i hate small talk, ask me the hard questions
me: so do you know what intergenerational trauma you inherited or did you want me to ask you about where you want your vacation home in ten years, alex
fetishizing "daddy issues" is to fetishize trauma and deflect the burden from an abusive/negligent parent onto a victim whose only fault was being born into incompetent DNA donors/parental figures.
intergenerational trauma and toxicity are inherited through nurture.
another person's failure to level up is not your burden, or your loss, or your failure. no one changes because someone inspired them. if they rise, it's because they're tackling their own shit for themselves.
just remembered the middle aged man who asked me if I was Eastern European because I have a "Dua Lipa vibe." I mean, we have the same coloring and bold brows? I'll take it, but no. 🙃
@hitRECordJoe Two flawed characters. You could also look at it as a story of two attachment styles--Anxious (Tom) and Avoidant (Summer.) Both would need to work on themselves a lot (therapy, relevant reading, self care) to ever have a healthy relationship. A story of humans being human.
If @johnkrasinski traveled 6,000 miles to be with his wife and family every weekend while filming, you can get a text back. If you're not happy and getting what you need, move on and the right things will eventually find you--they're looking for you, too.