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@Maggiewitdsauce@ikenna_ogwogwo@jon_d_doe We're not judging their story abi his story. I'm making a point here based on your first reply to Agba's post so we all can do good in this aspect.
As a man/woman please put your loved ones minds at ease. It's empathetic... Communicate
@Maggiewitdsauce@ikenna_ogwogwo@jon_d_doe Exactly that's the point... protect her from herself. The man is tired. She too do.
I'm not encouraging divorce at all. Just trying to point an attitude problem. And yes I'd cover and protect my wife, it becomes tiring when she's unteachable and incorrigible.
@Maggiewitdsauce@ikenna_ogwogwo@jon_d_doe Question is did she return the calls?
Notice that he said 'through out that day' and then his mother called him by evening.
Do you think it was just 'being busy' all night and till the next evening?
@Maggiewitdsauce@ikenna_ogwogwo@jon_d_doe You're right with your points however I'd want to defer on the call aspect. I feel it doesn't take anything to answer a call for a minute. This includes that from her mother too. If she really cared about their feelings, she'll put their minds at ease. Empathy!
If that were truly the case, then he should have shown more understanding, especially in a situation where his son was sick and his wife was clearly under pressure. From his own account, she did not even pick her mother’s call either, which suggests she was genuinely occupied, not deliberately ignoring only his family. To me, that points less to disrespect and more to the reality of a stressed mother trying to manage a sick child in the hospital.
Anyone who has handled a sick child, especially in a hospital setting, knows how overwhelming it can be. In moments like that, returning calls is hardly the first priority. The immediate focus is the child’s wellbeing. Calls can always be returned later.
If he is truly as family-oriented as you say, then his first responsibility in that moment should have been to his wife and son. As a supportive husband, he ought to have reassured his mother that his wife was likely busy attending to their sick child. Since he already had the necessary update about his son’s condition, he could easily have passed that information on to his mother instead of turning it into an issue against his wife.
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