When I’m SINGLE, I do me. When I talk to someone, I talk to that ONE person , and when I’m TAKEN, im faithful and tied tf down. So don’t get in your feelings when u see me doing what I tried to do with you with someone else, time waits for no one, and neither do I.
a woman's brain cannot relax until she feels physically & emotionally safe. many men don't understand how much energy women expend checking whether they're safe. providing an environment where she can turn off that part of her brain allows her to truly settle into her femininity
nobody talks about the angry stage of healing. the rage you feel when you realize how much and how long you were taken advantage of. the absolute disgust you feel towards those people that mislead you. it comes in waves. sometimes you'll feel healed and then it suddenly hits you.
Being the bigger woman really requires silence. Let people run with whatever narrative of you & let them feed it to whoever is listening. Move with grace always.
Respectfully, I don't go above and beyond for people anymore. I meet you as far as you meet me. I speak to you as much as you speak to me. I include you as much as you include me. Reciprocity is On steroids.