romantic connections are constant work. i talked to a married couple over dinner recently. i asked the husband how many different versions of her did he experience. he said, “many versions, even some i didn’t recognize, but i loved them all.”
You know how your eyes adjust when it’s dark so you can still see a little? Not me, it’s pitch black to me 24/7 & my phone died while I was using it as a flash light… let’s just say, to find the nearest light switch was insanely comical/sad.