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Taking time to do things that will enhance your self-esteem during the #holidays or at least give you a good dose of fun will not only take your focus off of feeling alone but can lift your spirits as well.
Prior to the #holidays, consider creating a list of go-to #coping skills to use whether you are at home or at a social function. It will be handy it #grief hits you unexpectedly.
It’s important to acknowledge your feelings and not avoid them. Anticipating difficult emotions and preparing ahead of time will help prevent negative consequences from occurring this #holidayseason.
While there may be pressure to attend a #holiday party, family gathering, holiday show—remember to check in with your wants and needs to identify your readiness.
The #holiday season is a great time to let people know you are thinking of them, and that they have made an impact on you in some shape or way, great or small. People like to know they matter, and they especially like to know that they matter to you.
If all the #holidays mean to you is #stress, then look inward and change what it means to you. As the saying goes, focus on what you control, and let the rest go.
This #holiday season, you may feel pressured to be everything to everyone. Remember, you are only one person and can accomplish certain things. Reflect on aspects of your life that give you #joy; go for a long walk; get a massage, or listen to your favorite music or read a new bo
Commercialism can overshadow the true sentiment of the #holidayseason. When your #holiday expense list is fatter than your monthly budget, scale back. Remind yourself that #family, #friends, and #relationships are what matter most.
If something goes wrong, realize it’s not the end of the world. Remember the good things you have in your life and recognize that this situation will pass. There will be time after the #holidays to do more of things that were overlooked during the #holidayseason.
This #holidayseason, focus on good memories and what you and your family have in common. Plan activities that foster fun and laughter, such as playing a family game or looking through old photo albums.
No #holiday#celebration is perfect. View any missteps as opportunities to exercise your flexibility and resilience. If your children’s wish list is outside your budget, talk to them about realistic #expectations and remind them that the #holidays aren’t about expensive gifts.
Everyone has a vision of the perfect #holiday, but when reality fails to live up to the dream, you can experience stress! Manage your expectations this #holidayseason.
Remember those points you’ve been letting build up on your VISA rewards card? The #holidays are a perfect time to cash some or all of those in to help pay for gifts, parties, and other seasonal expenses.