Unfortunately, a man who’s never been loved properly or been in a real, serious relationship will spend his whole life fumbling the first person who actually does love him. He’ll call boundaries “control,” communication “nagging,” and accountability “disrespect” because emotional intelligence is a language he never learned. Then he’ll sabotage every good thing that comes into his life and still convince himself he was the victim while having manipulative actions.
after “talking” to a few people for the past few weeks, I’ve realized that men don’t like calm women. if you don’t react or trip, that shit bothers them. niggas love chaos!
People respect you more when they don't see you often. Even parents. Trust me. It's strange how distance rearranges love, how absence restores what closeness erodes. When people are deprived of your presence, they start seeing you clearly again, not through habit but through awareness. Proximity dulls perception. Space sharpens it. That's just how the human mind works.
niggas will dsyregulate your nervous system & still expect pussy out of you. like actually i’m turned off & you need to get tf away from me & my womb.
I always feel at peace knowing there is so much love I'm going to experience and there's so much joy I haven't met yet. And I will definitely experience them all.✌
the universe is obsessed with giving me exactly what i want, because i am worthy, i am ready, and i said yes to every beautiful thing that was once out of reach.