Bryan is a visionary and one day the world will recognize him. If I can add something would be this: We know more about our cars than we know about our body.
When the insurance expires, we quickly renew it. We do the oil change more regularly than we go to the dentist.
He is the reason why I decided to always go to sleep before midnight.
Indecision compounds.
Not making (or not sticking to) the right call early buys “unknown amounts” of future suffering.
The short-term pain of the right decision now is far cheaper than the open-ended cost later.
It's so important to always know who's talking.
Learning to trust the highest version of yourself and distrust the old version of you is central for personal transformation.
In everyday life, you’re a passenger to other people’s stories. And if you’re truly perceptive, you’ll notice things. But noticing doesn’t mean you have to say anything. Most of the time it’s better to simply observe and let people live inside their own fantasies.
Coaching flips that completely.
If I see something, I observe it carefully but then I can’t pretend I didn’t. I can’t look away and do nothing. And this is one of the hardest parts of good coaching: taking the risk to say the uncomfortable thing. Risking that the client won’t be ready to see it, and will turn against the messenger instead.
But good coaching means taking that risk anyway. Because on the other side of it is transformation.
And that is a beautiful thing.