Why is it harmful?
They take longer to commit
Their marriage rates are low
They have less wealth than other men
They deal with racism but refuse to acknowledge sexism & misogynoir
They require more validation and encouragement than other men
They value respect aka fear over love
A lot of people have never dealt with a direct person. They’re used to people beating around the bush, or sugarcoating . So when they meet someone who’s direct, they think you’re being mean. No, you’re just not used to saying whatever you want and never having anyone redirect you