Yall need to start being mean to people that are mean to YOU. Stop that bigger person shit.. Release your inner bitches or whatever Natasha Bedingfield said!
If I cut you off, your success later won’t make me regret it. Good for you, truly. But becoming rich, popular, married, fit, or “blessed” does not rewrite how you treated people when your character was on trial. I can respect your growth from a distance and still remember why access was revoked. Success can change your status, but it doesn’t automatically clean your history.
Some family members will sit back and watch you go through the hardest time of your life without lifting a finger to help. Then when somebody else steps in and shows you support, they start talking, judging, and trying to turn people against you. Some people don’t want to see you healed because they got comfortable watching you hurt.
Adult female bullies don't always yell or fight.They manipulate quietly.
They twist situations to make someone feel left out, unwanted, or not good enough.
They use triangulation, silent treatment, and their little circle of enablers to tear someone down. It's calculated. It's intentional.
And it's abuse —just dressed up to look harmless.
I really want black people to stop thinking everyone should be business owners. Just because I can make dinner does NOT mean I should open a food truck or restaurant.