@valkcy I also tend to overthink things to the point of imagining full on conversations, coming to conclusions on my own, then when I finally reply, they're like, "wtf why are you crashing out on me"
@valkcy I tend to ghost people because I'm trying to think of the best thing to say, then by the time I do it's been too long and then I feel weird about it being so long. I find it's better to just say what you want in the moment. They don't like it, oh well.