There are people who have mastered responsibility but never learned that their worth exists even when they're not useful.
Let me tell you about a man I know.
When we see things like this, we shouldn't be shocked. It's a reminder that they're just men, not saints. Have you ever confronted him about it or you just keep ignoring?
This is really disappointing. A married pastor still commenting "my crush" on every one of your statuses for three whole years is wild. The same mouth preaching holiness is doing this.
A married pastor I helped with data analysis during a survey in Taraba state 3 years ago still comments “my crush” on every single one of my WhatsApp statuses.
Three whole years.
Bro has a wife.
This is exactly why some of us are losing respect for certain “men of God.”
The same mouth preaching holiness is typing “my crush.”
But honestly, you shouldn't be too surprised. Many men of God do this kind of thing, and some even go to extremes. We need to stop treating them like they're perfect or equal to God. They are human beings with their own shortcomings and weaknesses.
You can spend years becoming emotionally self sufficient then quietly realize you don't know how to receive care without feeling guilty, cautious, or indebted.
Twitter post:
As a man, never forget that your wife is more important than your mother..
Twitter women:
Yes, a real man must understand that his mother has a husband that see her more important than his mother,
I agree with this, men should prioritise their wife more.
Twitter post:
As a women, it is important to know that your husband is more important than your father..
Twitter women:
As how? Who said that??
I disagree with this? Every men have their own values.
Me: you agree that you're more important than his mother but disagree that he's more important than your dad..
You see the double standard you people are settling??
There are people who have mastered responsibility but never learned that their worth exists even when they're not useful.
Let me tell you about a man I know.
Responsibility is important.But a man who only knows his value through usefulness will eventually break.
Strength is knowing you matter even when you're not carrying the world on your shoulders.
SM
That break down became his turning point.He started seeing that his worth was never in how much he did for others. It was there all along in his quiet moments, in his existence, in the simple fact that he was a human being trying his best.