@SchizoMellie@arteriotomyyy Having social disabilities on top of this sucks so bad. I jump to trying to make myself useful to people because I feel I have to earn accommodation and kindness. Nothing I do is enough for transmisogynists, so my effort is exploited while my needs are ignored.
transphobia isnt bad because it hurts all women, its bad because it kills trans people. it also sucks that it hurts everyone else but that isnt the core issue