In a relationship or marriage, privacy is not the same as secrecy; your partner deserves some privacy, even in their phone conversations.
However, when secrecy becomes the order of the day, that's when you'll notice that they turn on disappearing messages and become overprotective of their phones.
It may not always lead to physical cheating, but it can result in emotional cheating.
For women, it starts with her feeling excited to share her personal joy with a stranger online.
If she's angry, she wants to tell him about it.
If she's happy, she wants to tell him about it.
Even when she has sex with her partner, she'll want to share her experience (good or not) with him.
Those conversations can become very intimate, and she'll definitely not want her partner to see them.
That's no longer privacy, it's secrecy.
For a man, he'll indulge you in his personal affairs.
He'll make you understand how good he treats his woman and make you admire his wife and him.
Those beautiful or sweet conversations that he'll be having with you will make you low-key start to compare him with your man and make you start wishing he was the one.
Until he gradually starts becoming your go-to person and your confidant.
And that's how you become very vulnerable with him and start imagining doing things with him.
He, too, will not be comfortable allowing his woman to see those conversations.
That is no longer privacy, but secrecy.
I put it to you that most people cheat emotionally without necessarily being in physical contact with the other party.
Some may go the extra mile to make their imaginations a reality, and most would stop as online romantic or flirtatious affairs.
Very few people are immune to this.
However, pray that the other party is as mature and discerning as you are.
The only way to completely avoid it is to not start the conversation at all.
If you can.
End.
I was buying something at a store when the seller was talking telling another buyer about a particular soup
Seller: after you cook this soup,turn xyz swallow because your husband will love it.
Buyer:No,I don’t want to spoil my husband. If I start,he will always want it
Me:is that an issue?
Her:yes, them no Dey show man new thing.
Me:*in my head*
(I thought wicked advice on how to be less kind to your spouse ends online,so you people preach it offline too?)
Only a fool will allow people make them be unkind to their spouses.
@jon_d_doe Good morning Agba
While I agree on growing with your partner...I don't agree that your life partner is in the university,there are people who go to university and choose not to date till after school,it doesn't mean they have missed there life partner.
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@Amazhiel_@TomiwaImmanuel@SULTXn_o I hope you also know you can't force people into believing your religion
You can only preach and pray,then allow the Creator of the universe speak to the person himself.
The bible says the heart of the king is in his hands.
@TomiwaImmanuel@SULTXn_o I hope one day, we all learn to focus on our salvation and stop all this religious arguments.
Everyone has the right to believe In any religion they choose or see to be right.
@FBN_help@FrankDogl@FirstBankngr First bank,what is happening
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