Better don't think we are on same side, I can agree with you today and disagree with you tomorrow even on same topic. I am here to converse/learn and open to criticism. For everyone and for no one. My A today can be B tomorrow after conviction. Selah
In another story, a woman divorced her husband for doing DNA test on their children (which came out positive though) insisting that she can't stay with a man who doesn't trust her
There should be a death sentence for a lot of things in this life. This woman had 3 kids for her husband, the firstborn is already 21 years old, and according to the story shared on Kokoro Alate, none of the 3 kids belongs to the man. He is already 56 years old.
People started telling the man that his third child looked exactly like their pastor. That was when he became suspicious and came online to seek help after repeatedly begging his wife to tell him the truth.
• The man raised all three children believing they were biologically his.
• Despite his financial struggles, he did everything possible to provide for them, even borrowing money when necessary to take care of their needs and education.
• His firstborn is already 21 years old, and he reportedly sponsored the child through university.
• Trouble started when people began telling him that his third child looked exactly like their pastor.
• He became suspicious and repeatedly begged his wife to tell him the truth about the children.
• His wife insisted that all three children belonged to him and reportedly left the house at some point, accusing him of not trusting her.
• The man eventually came online to seek help, and the matter led to DNA tests being conducted.
• The DNA results reportedly showed that NONE of the three children was biologically his.
• Two of the children were allegedly fathered by their pastor.
• The firstborn, whom the man had already sponsored through university, reportedly belonged to another man entirely.
• The painful part is that the woman allegedly knew the truth all along, yet allowed him to spend more money conducting DNA tests to discover what she already knew.
• The man is now 56 years old, after spending more than two decades raising and providing for three children he believed were his.
Imagine dedicating over 20 years of your life, finances and emotions to raising three children you believed were biologically yours, only to discover at 56 that none of them is yours.
Stories like this make me wonder how many similar things happened in our parents' generation but never became public because there was no social media to amplify them.
Your husband was pursuing a business with some oil and gas companies in Nigeria for eight years without making any headway.
He is an engineer, and he had come up with a particular design as an alternative to one of the tools used in crude oil mining.
The idea was good, but people were used to what they already had and were unwilling to pioneer change or try something new
Yet your husband was determined to push his idea until someone bought it.
Out of desperation, your husband called an old friend in Scotland
This friend was his lecturer at one point during his studies abroad
The friend sent him a ticket and invited him over to the UK for a discussion on the idea
Your husband travelled to the UK for a month, but he came back home empty-handed
The friend loved the idea but could only promise to talk to one or two people and see what would pan out
Your husband returned home, praying he would get a call back from his friend
Four months of silence went by
Four months of prayer
You have gone to many pastors and prophets to pray
The message you received has been consistent
Your husband's idea would not sell, nothing would come out of all his struggles
It would be best for him to find a job teaching in secondary school or lecturing in the university instead of pushing a dead dream
You told your husband this
He listened, but he kept his fingers crossed
Suddenly, his friend called him and told him he would have to come to the UK for a very important meeting with some investors who liked the idea and would like to partner in manufacturing the design, patenting it and launching it into the market
You ran to your prophet to share the good news
Your prophet told you, "Your husband didn't have any breakthrough. If he travelled, he would not be returning because he was going to be with a woman. A wife he married in the UK in secret, or a concubine, or a side chick, but it is not for work"
You went home with this sad news
Your husband denied it and became very defensive because you were determined not to allow him to travel
You called his father and his mother and friends; you did everything to dissuade him from travelling
When he saw you wouldn't listen to reason, he picked his passport and left for the UK
You felt betrayed that he refused to listen to you
You felt betrayed that he left without your blessing
A week after he left, you packed the children, and you abandoned your matrimonial home
A week after you left, you sent a court summons to your own home, inviting your husband to court to discuss separation and custody of the children
Your husband secured a multimillion-dollar deal
He returned to Nigeria to deal with the mess you have left behind
When you saw that you were wrong and he came home rich, you should eat the humble pie, apologise and return to your marriage
You went back to the prophet, and the prophet told you that the money your husband now has is blood money, and it is your destiny he will be using to service the money if you returned to the marriage
The prophet told you that if you don't return to the marriage and if you refuse your husband access to the children for one year, your husband would die, as there would be nobody to use to service his blood money.
For this reason, you made it very difficult for your husband to access the children for a year.
Eventually, a year went by, and your husband was very much alive
The court awarded him joint custody of the children
You began to suggest that you would like to accompany the children to his house for their visitation times.
Your husband then played a joker and introduced his new girlfriend, even though you both were not legally divorced yet
At that point, you went berserk
How dare he move on with another woman?
Why couldn't he beg you or explain to you properly or wait for you to come to your senses?
How dare he bring another woman into the new house he just bought
You were the one who suffered, the one who had the children for him and the one who was there when things were difficult
This other woman just came in to profit off your years of labour
You began to call friends and family members to beg on your behalf
You began to say it was the devil
You were misled
You were deceived
But that ship has sailed...
Aunty, there is no need to fight destiny
It is your lot to sow and never to reap
Just accept this and move on...
My two cents.
So the World Cup Best Player now goes to zero goals and zero assists? 🤔
Messi drops 8 goals, 4 assists, drags his team to the final… and still gets overlooked.
Football has moved from impact to vibes. 😂
The FG should allow Chinese & Indian Cement into Nigeria
One of the reasons houses are expensive is because of Dangote and other building material dealers
Open up the cement and building materials up to the Chinese and watch 6 million Naira build an affordable house
So apparently a parent got into a physical fight with my friend who teaches her child. She said her child can't be doing extra lessons in school and still not win any prize.
It became a very big issue because my friend's husband didn't let it go. He had the lady who attacked his wife arrested. They had to show the woman all the students report and she saw everyone's grades and that people scored above her child. The lady eventually apologized and paid for damages. I am just so surprised that some parents can go this far over things like this. I got to found out in the cs that some schools have scrap out the whole prize giving award because of issues from some parents.