I go crazy when i think about how that woman vomited every morning, went sleepless for nights and months, permanently lost her physical health and suffered permanent scars and pain during childbirth because why would she endure all that for a piece of shit. Having a son is scary
Believe it or not, that’s a real research priority that made it through ethics review, funding approval, and publication.
Women’s pain is routinely underfunded, under-researched, and reframed through lenses that center male perception rather than female suffering. When a disease that causes internal bleeding and debilitating pain is treated as an aesthetic curiosity, it tells you exactly whose comfort the system is built around.
This is what people mean when they talk about medical misogyny. Not conspiracies. Not exaggeration. Just priorities laid bare.
So yes, when women are in pain, why is the system still more interested in how they look for men than how they heal?
The biggest bioessentialist brainwashing in history is the lie that men act with logic and women with emotions and it's a brainwashing that still works in the 21st century and that makes me laugh because we are doomed obviously
i think asking labor & delivery staff “can you put in an extra stitch for me?” even as a “joke” should be grounds for an immediate divorce, forfeiture of input over custody arrangements, and consent to at least 18 years of alimony + child support, and i’m not joking