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[Rainbow Lounge 🌈 @Amazing80719]

I grew up in the eastern part of Nigeria, just a regular boy trying to understand the world around me. But around the age of 10, I started noticing something I couldn’t explain. While others talked about liking girls, I found myself feeling differently. I was drawn to the same gender, and it confused me deeply. At that age, I didn’t even know what sexuality meant—I just knew something felt “off.”

I convinced myself it was a phase, something that would go away. But as the years passed, it didn’t. Instead, the feelings became stronger. Fear took over. I thought something was wrong with me, something that needed to be fixed. So I turned to what I knew best—I prayed. I fasted. I went from one church to another, crying and begging God to “change” me. I made promises, desperate ones, hoping that one day I would wake up different.

I even forced myself into a relationship with a girl, trying to prove to myself that I could be “normal.” But deep down, I knew I was lying—to her and to myself. Nothing worked. No prayer, no fasting, no effort could take these feelings away.

For over 10 years, I fought a battle within myself. It was exhausting.

Everything changed when I got admission into the University of Port Harcourt. For the first time, I met people who felt exactly the way I did. I wasn’t alone. That realization changed everything.

Slowly, I stopped fighting. I started listening to myself. I began to accept who I truly am.

Today, I live in peace. I am no longer at war with myself. I have embraced my identity, and I am finally free. I enjoyed it more with my boyfriend and do not listen to anyone telling me about deliverance because it never worked for me. What do you think? Do you know any pastor that can deliver me with assurance?🌈

[Rainbow Lounge 🌈 @Amazing80719]

@LaSheyyw It will be difficult for someone to approach you physically if you don’t have any trace of gay behavior in you.

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Tell us your encounter with DL men, I would like to meet with one though.

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@JamboTrain Sharp guy 😂

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@GuiltyAF_ lol 😂 , I hope you enjoyed the moment though.

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@JungleIsland12 Tell us more

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@TeduAwo Because we had a thing last night and I will probably need more 😂

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@ElijahBene31180 Some btm are dominant enough to treat ur fuck up

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@ElijahBene31180 @HoneyEdeh 🙈🙈🙈

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@OnikaMz That means you are DL

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@her_stepdad D play 😂😂😂😂

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@OnyaRuver lol 😂 😂😂😂

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20 days in nysc camp without masturbation nor even thinking about it, meanwhile I do that everyday at home 😜.

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@sexyman2526 Do you mean that military men can not be in a good relationship with someone?

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@obivitus256 You could still share

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@HoneyEdeh Down low which refers to a discrete man who only identifies with you on bed, after the sex he will pretend to be straight again.

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@KOsajie Cowards? I don’t really think so, some might have a dignity to protect.

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@obivitus256 Wow, is it that bad?

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@AguhNdbest89085 I need a man in ph for the quick doggy 🙈

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@AguhNdbest89085 Very sick and they are still knacking him anyhow

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Where is this small boy?

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@AguhNdbest89085 I’m heading home now oooooh

I need a better doggy first 😂😂😂

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@AguhNdbest89085 Even you? 😂😂😂😂

I won’t take that shit from you oooo

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@Margiela_Smith Na wrong people